Sunday, May 18, 2014

Happiness Is....The Redneck Theologian's Response


Because I’m happy
Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth
Because I’m happy
Clap along if you know what happiness is to you
Because I’m happy
Clap along if you feel like that’s what you wanna do

Here come bad news talking this and that, yeah,
Well, give me all you got, and don’t hold it back, yeah,
Well, I should probably warn you I’ll be just fine, yeah,
No offense to you, don’t waste your time
Here’s why
Can't nothing bring me down
My level's too high
Bring me down
Can't nothing bring me down
I said (let me tell you now)
Bring me down
Can't nothing bring me down
My level's too high
Bring me down
Can't nothing bring me down
I said

Philippians 4:11-13
New Revised Standard Version (NRSV)
11 Not that I am referring to being in need; for I have learned to be content with whatever I have. 12 I know what it is to have little, and I know what it is to have plenty. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being well-fed and of going hungry, of having plenty and of being in need. 13 I can do all things through him who strengthens me.



Elizabeth’s Reflections or “The Redneck Theologian”
Today Shannon provided a powerful and thought provoking message regarding our decision point between the point of stimuli and the choice of response we have in situations.  We each get to choose if we will be positive or negative in each situation.

Once we choose, we tend to self-reinforce our choices and create a cycle of habit.  These habits then, become the way we tend to be known.  Thus if we have a tendency to choose the positive and reinforce those choices, we are likely known as a positive person.  If we tend to choose the negative then reinforce such, then we may very well become known as a negative person.

Shannon began her message with a delightful video of a current song by the artist Pharrell with a cute video. The lyrics above help you understand why the song is taking the country by storm.  Everyone in American is doing the “happy” dance from Oprah to Good Morning America.  The positive affirmations of the lyrics and the upbeat music, which accompanies it, are appealing across genres.

In reading the scripture for today, we focus on the concept of being content-regardless of the situation.  Whether we are content in good times or content suffering. 

This reminds me of advice I recently wrote for my daughter upon her college graduation.  My husband and I each provided “advice to our daughter upon her graduation” in a booklet she might keep. In one note, I wrote a series of 10 pieces of advice and one point was “find happiness in the ordinary.”  I offered this advice because I believe it important that she cherish the everyday moments. As the poet William Blake opens one of his famous poems with, “To see a World in a Grain of Sand, And a Heaven in a Wild Flower, Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand, And Eternity in an hour” I hope for her to find bliss in common moments, to see the extraordinary in the ordinary because it is the ordinary where we spend the majority of our moments and if we disregard those moments seeking only the high of the extraordinary, then we discard the majority of our life.

Shannon’s commentary made me think of Viktor E. Frankl’s book, Man’s Search for Meaning.  Frankl, a Holocaust survivor is famous for his pioneering of the belief that humans do have a choice in how they respond.

Frankl says,
If there is meaning in life at all, then there must be a meaning in suffering.  Suffering is an imperadicable part of life, even as fate and death.  Without suffering and death human life cannot be complete.  The way in which a man accepts his fate and all the suffering it entails, the way in which he takes up his cross, gives him ample opportunity—even under the most difficult circumstances—to add a deeper meaning to his life.

Frankl’s reflections, made all the more powerful knowing he drew his conclusions as he watched individuals deal with life and death before his very eyes. 

Thus between the point we receive a stimuli and the point of our response, we have a choice.  God has already provided Jesus for us and our battle has been won. We need not wallow in pity and wage a war filled with anger and bitterness.  The war has already been won. 

We may choose to live our lives in a way that defines us, with a deeper meaning, as a child of God, dealing with joyful and difficult circumstances, but always as a Child of an all-powerful God.